Ellen, I just said I was sorry and you used it against me. I am worried how my Gramma will treat me when we go up north. That sounds smart, except it's highly insulting to me if I just said sorry and it's not @ something else. That makes no sense. What tipped the boat for me was I didn't wanna post @ it, I think that's my problem now, I wasn't @ my computer. You're just trying to feel safe around people when you will never really get to them all!